Husbands: Invest in Your Wife
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“God will never be mocked! For what you plant will always be the very thing you harvest.” Galatians 6:7 TPT
“And let us not lose heart and grow weary and faint in acting nobly and doing right, for in due time and at the appointed season we shall reap, if we do not loosen and relax our courage and faint.” Galatians 6:9 AMPC
Others words for sow: planting, investing, enriching
Our role is to be a faithful sower. Leave the results up to God.
“Death and life are in the power of the tongue” Proverbs 18:21 NKJV
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.” Galatians 5:22-23 NASB1995
Husbands, buckle up! It's time to dive into an exhilarating journey of love and service toward your wives. Picture this: every action, every response overflowing with genuine, sincere, and passionate devotion. It's not about what she does or says—it's about your unwavering commitment to love her fiercely, to serve her with all your heart, and to respond to her needs with utmost care and dedication. This is more than just a role—it's a thrilling adventure of selfless love, where each moment spent loving her becomes a testament to your deep and enduring commitment. So, gear up, husbands, and let your actions speak louder than any words—because loving and serving your wife passionately is the ultimate adventure of a lifetime!
Address her basic needs and keep in mind her primary love language.
Security
Imagine this scene: in the quiet of the evening, with soft candlelight casting gentle shadows, you take her hands in yours, gazing deeply into her eyes. With a tender smile, you whisper those three magical words: "I love you." You don't just say it; you make her feel it in every syllable, every breath. But it doesn't stop there. You continue, expressing your heartfelt gratitude for having her by your side, as your wife. You speak of the warmth she brings into your life, the strength she inspires in you, and the security she wraps around your heart. Your words are like a love poem, painting a picture of appreciation and adoration that envelops her soul. In that moment, she feels safe—safe in your love, safe in your commitment, safe in the knowledge that you cherish her beyond measure. And as you hold her close, whispering sweet assurances of love and gratitude, the bond between you deepens, and romance blooms anew.
a. Communicatedirectly and honestly. No mind games
b. Bereliable.
c. Respect her opinions, feelings and choices
d. Include her when you are making decisions
e. Know how to admit mistakes and ask for forgiveness
Soft, Non-Sexual Affection
Your wife needs to know that she’s more to you than just a sex object and that you’re connected to her on a higher level than just sex. The more non-sexual soft affection women get, the more sexual they become.
hint: hold her hand, neck rubs, foot rubs, stroke her hair, touch her arm when you talk to her, rub her shoulders, rub her back, hugs, etc.
Open and Honest Communication
Jimmy Evans says, “Women don’t want headlines. They don’t want grunt and groans. She connects to your world and your heart through communication.” She doesn’t want facts, she wants to know how you feel. Men, your wife isn’t wired like you are. Everything is connected. Hold your wife. Talk to her. Her heart will open to you and to intimacy on a level that you haven’t experienced before.
Leadership
Throughout history, women have often been relegated to second-class status. However, with you, that narrative changes entirely. Jimmy Evans says that women want their husbands to be the loving initiator in these areas:
Children
Romance
Finances
Spiritual Matters
Initiate conversations in these four areas.
