Episode 9

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Published on:

19th Apr 2024

Integrity Red Flags

Integrity Red Flags

Welcome to the Inspiring Marriages Podcast. We are Jeff and Teresa Fields. The music that you heard during our intro was composed and recorded by our son, Joseph Taylor Fields @joseph_fields_texas • Instagram photos and videos

We have been happily married for 32 years. We have 3 wonderful grown children, a fantastic son-in-love and a precious grand baby.

As we share our story, our desire is to inspire couples to build their friendships and thus build their marriages in all areas: spiritually, emotionally, romantically & physically.

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Courtship …

Courtship — it is a period where a man and a woman dedicate themselves to learn more about each other and to seek God together to determine if it is God’s will for them to get married.

The honest person will live [Those who walk in innocence walk] in safety, but ·the dishonest [those who twist their path] will be caught [found out]. Proverbs 10:9 (EXB)


So discard every form of dishonesty and lying so that you will be known as one who always speaks the truth, for we all belong to one another. Ephesians 4:25 (TPT)


Red Flags:

Integrity:

1. Keeps pushing the boundaries (especially physically)

2. Still wants to live as if unattached. – doesn’t consider your viewpoint when making decisions.

3. Acts differently based on the situation.

4. Sees other people secretly.


Christ has liberated us to be free. Stand firm then and don’t submit again to a yoke of slavery. Galatians 5:1 (HCSB)

Codependency:

5. Always venting (dumping) on you or always needing more from you

Codependency: a psychological condition or a relationship in which a person manifesting low self-esteem and a strong desire for approval has an unhealthy attachment to another often controlling or manipulative person (such as a person with an addiction to alcohol or drugs).

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Continuing our story: Courtship Story

Labor Day Weekend

Saturday Atlanta – Chinese food & Robin Hood Prince of Thieves

Sunday – Vincient Valley with New Wine Fellowship

Monday – cookout with the Fields family

Friendship builder:

Subscribe to a marriage podcast. Listen to it while you both can listen together:

1. Morning

2. Evening

3. Out driving around

Key: TALK about it

Some of our favorite marriage podcasts:

Jimmy Evans XOMarriage

MarriageToday | Jimmy & Karen Evans Podcast | XO Marriage

TheStrongerMarriage Podcast – Trey and Lea Morgan

** TheStrongerMarriagePodcast **

The Naked Marriage Podcast – Dave and Ashley Willis

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis on Apple Podcasts


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Inspiring Marriages
Inspiring busy married couples to enhance friendship and romance
Inspiring Marriages is a faith based podcast that will enable busy married couples to enhance their friendship and romance. This thirty minute podcast drops every Friday morning at 6 a.m. US Central Time. As we share our story, our desire is to inspire couples to build their friendships and thus build their marriages in all areas: spiritually, emotionally, romantically and physically. Our podcast topics include weekly friendship builders, fun ideas and tips for the week.

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Jeff & Teresa Fields

Howdy, we are Jeff and Teresa Fields. We have been married for over 32 years and we have 1 son, 2 daughters, 1 incredible son-in-love and a precious grand baby. We have been writing and producing music for over 30 years. We have been hosting weekly livestreams featuring Biblical teaching and original music for over 4 years. Our desire is to encourage and inspire other couples with our story so that they too can enhance their friendship and romance.